How I handle negative criticism

 I handle constructive criticism pretty well, if it's about grammar,spelling or what not I make the needed changes and thank you pointed them out to me. If it's about my plot  or how I ended it I think about what they said and if I believe it would help to change a few things I do if not I tell them thank you but I am leaving it they way it is.

 Now if they get personal I usually go to my hubby and talk to him about what was said and how I feel. He can normally calm me down enough not to lash out at the negative comment maker. It helps a lot to have supportive people around you. It is alway hard for them negativeity to get to you but you always need to let it go.

I am off to write
Happy reading
Happy writing


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